10 reasons I love my small, southern town:
1) Door locking is optional. (No, seriously..)
2) Sweet tea is the drink of choice. When you sit down at a restaurant, the waiter expects you to order sweet tea.
3) "Y'all" is incorporated into everyone's vocabulary. I don't know any word equivalent.
4) When you're out of town, your neighbor collects your mail, your newspaper, waters your plants, puts your packages inside- all free of charge. You have a friendship with your plumber and bug man, and the dry cleaners comes to your house and picks up your clothes.
5) Everybody holds the door open for one another.
6) In a small town, you're one big family. You lean on each other in good times and in bad. You know who is going through what and when. And everyone is always there to help. You're never alone.
7) Getting from point A to point B takes less than 5 minutes.
8) There really isn't any crime. When someone in our town gets pulled over for speeding, 5 cop cars follow. Unnecessary.
9) It's a slower pace of living. It makes you appreciate the small stuff.
10) I've built memories around this town. I can drive by my childhood home at any time of day. I can see where I had my first birthday party, reminisce on times spent at the gas station I hung around in high school, the soccer field I played on when I was 5, the old gym I took ballet in as a child. I know every curve, nook and cranny of this town. And when i'll raise a family of my own, i'll get to do all of these things over again, in a special and different way.
10 reasons I wanna get the heck out of dodge:
1) You know the days where you have no makeup, a huge zit and a baseball cap on? Low profile or not, you run into someone no matter where you go.
2) Once you've seen everything, you've seen everything...
3) Your days can get kind of repetitive. The same restaurants, the same shops.
4) The "no crime thing" is great. But the police here can be a little dramatic, for example: during high school, a bunch of us went back to a friends house after prom and hung out in the garage. A cop driving by heard noise and assumed we were all drinking. We most definitely were not. He then proceeded to order "back up" and demanded we call our parents to pick us up. It was in the AM hours, and he didn't even care to do a breathalyzer. Our poor parents.
5) Everyone knows all of your business. When something happens, everyone knows it. If you're a private person, I don't suggest living in a small town.
6) Living in a small, southern town can be difficult because everyone is very traditional. They expect you to do what everyone else does. If it's out of the norm, it's considered weird.
7) Lots of land means lots of deer and lots of wrecks. You get the picture.
8) Stores close early. Nuff said.
9) There are a lot of stray animals. I don't know if this is a small town thing or city people have it too? We just took in 4 kittens we found this summer. Currently, our pet count is up to 9 pets.
10) You aren't really exposed to different cultures. It's just good ole southern people.
Our local farmers market |
Strawberry Patch Park |
A bistro |
She always packages the candy with the prettiest ribbon |
The tree on the lake at the park |
These angels have been apart of the town decor since I was little |
The village (handmade by a talented craftsman) lit up at night |
They even have mini furniture inside! |
Little people in church! |
Where do you live? Do you like it? Plan on living there forever?
Adorable town! Looks like it has a lot of history, I would love to live there :)
ReplyDeleteAnd you guys are kind of famous now since The Help took place there, right?
ReplyDeleteI grew up in a small town in Pennsylvania. There was only 1 traffic light and just as many horse and buggies as cars. And it definitely did not have any charm like southern small towns do.
I got the H out of there and moved to Philadelphia for college and now live in the suburbs outside of the city. Or as I like to call it "civilization".
Your town is so cute! I love it! The pictures of the candy store are great, especially with the southern gentleman in the cowboy hat!
ReplyDeleteI feel very similar feelings towards my own town as well. It's a small city up in Northern British Columbia and it's basically known as a town people only move to for work. You're hard pressed to speak with someone who doesn't, or hasn't worked in the Oil and Gas Industry here. But when you dig deeper, and when you've lived here longer {going on 11 years!} you start to discover this great community of art and music, and really awesome people! And all our surrounding area is filled with rolling hills and rivers and miles and miles of forest!
Home is where you make it!
What a cute town!!! I loved all these pictures, and I loved your pros and cons of a small town! The town I grew up in and went to high school in was very similar. Small, everyone knows EVERYONE, limited stores, etc.
ReplyDeleteI loved it and wouldn't trade that experience for the world... but I do love where I live now. I'm only about 45 minutes away from where I grew up, but in a much bigger town with more options, cultures, etc. I love it!!
the vintage feel to your blog is just so incredibly cute! and all of these christmas treats is just making me want chirstmas more and more. i can't wait :)
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adorable town! and wonderful pictures!
ReplyDeleteThis makes me wish we lived in a small town! I get the downsides (I went to college for a year in a TINY town in the bible belt), but I LOVE the sense of community. We see it sort of where we live (Lfayette, LA) but I've always envied the truly southern way of life in Mississippi and Alabama. (I'm from Houston and people may hate me for it, but it's NOT a southern type state!)
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I'm so happy that I stumbled across your blog today! Your site is absolutely adorable, and these pictures are perfect!
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So happy you followed me as I've discovered your blog! :) SO wonderful! Your entries, your clear beautiful photos — I love everything :)
ReplyDeleteLove this entry too - quaint little towns such as yours are close to my heart. ♥ I lived in a small quiet town in France before and it reminds me so much of your town. I miss it!
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Shari
my hometown sounds like yours :) move to san francisco so we can be real life friends! ;-)
ReplyDeleteOh, how I miss southern towns every now and again. My husband and I recently moved from a small town in Georgia to Zurich, the largest city in Switzerland. It's quite a transition, but I have to say it's a good one. :)
ReplyDeleteI love the South. I have never been to Mississippi, but your town looks lovely. And so much history there! I have spent time in Alabama and Tennessee every summer for the past few years, and I love love LOVE sweet tea! California is great, but you have many wonderful things there, too. Beautiful pictures!
ReplyDeleteYour town looks gorgeous and charming! It took me a long time to appreciate my town too. I live in Draper, Utah. I have lived all over the valley, but I am starting to appreciate my state more and more because of the comfort I have there! Love your blog, it's super cute!
ReplyDeleteYour town looks adorable!!! Strawberry Chapel? Strawberry Patch Park? Cutest names ever!
ReplyDeleteokay you are the darling one! i want to come visit in this town :) so cute! xoxo your blog is darling and we are now following! xoxo ps come enter our giveaway here!
ReplyDeleteCute post! In Canada there is only sweet tea! I bet you would love it!
ReplyDeleteJackson looks like such a sweet, picturesque town! I would love to live in a place like that someday, even if just for a year or two. Just to experience it! I live in Philadelphia, and have my whole life. I love the hustle and bustle most of the time, but sometimes I wish I lived in a tiny town!
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Stay, stay, stay! Your hometown is wonderful. Of course, should you ever decide to leave, you can always return.
I've been in my town for over 20 years. Love small town living.
I just found coffee caramel and cream and just read that post and commented before your comment on my blog! I am following there now, too.
The pictures of you and your FIANCE are beautiful. What a wonderful time in your lives. And I can tell you from someone who has done it both ways...being equally yoked is wonderful! We are coming up to our 11th anniversary, and our wonderful marriage gets better every year!
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I'll be back!
There are probably pros and cons no matter where you live. I loove your town though. You have the cutest shops I've ever seen. Beautiful pictures!
ReplyDeleteI've lived in a big city my whole life (Toronto) and I'm always really interested in hearing about and seeing small town life accounts! I have a really nice impression of a quaint and tight-knit community...but I haven't given too much thought about the cons until you brought them up!
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wow....such a pretty town! It seems so idyllic and peaceful.... it totally put me in such a christmas mood! Thank you for sharing such lovely images with everyone!
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i love this. (:
ReplyDeletei'm actually from Columbus, so i've been to Jackson quite a bit.
i used to go for youth conferences all the time.
so i completely understand what you mean-
pro and con wise.
also, these are beautiful pictures!
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ReplyDeletewowww,,,,what a really nice place. If I not mistaken Fred Durst (lead singer of Limp Bizkit) is from here ? I read' it from his Bio quite long time ago. Im LB fan ehehee =)
anyway, love your style.
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